Sympathy Flowers

Sending sympathy flowers is a thoughtful way to convey condolences and support to someone who is grieving. Here’s a guide to selecting and sending sympathy flowers:

Traditional Sympathy Flowers:

1. Lilies: Often symbolize the restored innocence of the soul of the deceased.
2. Roses: White roses represent reverence, humility, and innocence, while red roses convey respect and courage.
3. Chrysanthemums: Signify death, especially in European cultures. They are associated with lamentation and grief.
4. Carnations: White carnations signify pure love and innocence; red carnations evoke admiration; pink carnations symbolize remembrance.
5. Orchids: Express eternal love. White and pink orchids are common for sympathy arrangements.

Color Meanings:

• White: Purity, peace, and innocence.
• Red: Love, respect, and strength.
• Blue: Calm and serenity.
• Pink: Sympathy, grace, and love.
• Yellow: Friendship and remembrance.

Types of Arrangements:

1. Bouquets: Simple and versatile for home or service.
2. Wreaths: Circular shape symbolizes eternal life and are often used at services.
3. Sprays: Arranged to be viewed from one side, suitable for funeral services.
4. Baskets: Can be placed on the floor or a table at the service or the family home.
5. Plants: Living plants offer a lasting option that can be cared for, symbolizing ongoing support.

Sending Tips:

1. Check Customs: Different cultures have varying customs regarding funeral flowers.
2. Message: Include a heartfelt message. Keep it brief and empathetic.
3. Delivery Timing: Ensure flowers are delivered to the correct place. Verify if the family prefers flowers sent to the service, home, or both.
4. Coordination: If possible, coordinate with a friend or family member to avoid overwhelming the family with arrangements of inappropriate sizes or themes.

Sample Sympathy Messages:

• “With deepest sympathy as you remember [Name].”
• “Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”
• “Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time.”

Etiquette:

• Religious Considerations: Be aware of the deceased’s religious customs. For example, some traditions may prefer charitable donations over flowers.
• Personal Relationship: Consider your relationship with the deceased and their family when selecting the type and style of the arrangement.

By sending sympathy flowers thoughtfully, you offer comfort and show solidarity during a time of loss.