Funeral Flowers

Funeral flowers are a poignant and traditional way to express sympathy, honor the deceased, and offer comfort to grieving families. They carry deep symbolism and can vary greatly in style, type, and meaning. Here are some considerations when selecting funeral flowers:

Types of Funeral Flowers and Arrangements

1. Wreaths:
   • Circular in shape, symbolizing eternal life.
   • Commonly displayed at the funeral service, gravesite, or memorial.
2. Standing Sprays:
   • Large, dramatic arrangements typically displayed on an easel.
   • Often sent by more distant relatives or groups like co-workers.
3. Casket Sprays:
   • Designed to sit atop the casket.
   • Full casket sprays are for closed caskets, while half casket sprays are used for open caskets.
4. Bouquets and Vase Arrangements:
   • Smaller, versatile arrangements in vases.
   • Appropriate for both the funeral service and home of the grieving family.
5. Funeral Baskets:
   • Large, floral baskets displayed around the funeral service.
   • Easier to transport than standing sprays.
6. Indoor Plants:
   • Longer-lasting than cut flowers.
   • Often sent directly to the family’s home as a lasting memory.

Common Flowers Used in Funeral Arrangements

1. Lilies:
   • Represent restored innocence and purity of the soul.
2. Roses:
   • Various colors with different meanings: red (love and respect), white (reverence and innocence), yellow (friendship), pink (grace), and dark crimson (grief and sorrow).
3. Carnations:
   • Long-lasting and come in many colors.
   • Red symbolizes admiration, white symbolizes pure love and innocence, and pink typically denotes remembrance.
4. Chrysanthemums:
   • Often referred to as “mums,” they signify death and mourning in many cultures, particularly in Europe and Asia.
5. Gladioli:
   • Represent strength of character and moral integrity.
   • Tall and striking, often used in fan sprays.
6. Orchids:
   • Particularly the dendrobium and phalaenopsis orchids.
   • Symbolize eternal love and elegance.

Choosing the Right Arrangement

• Relationship to the Deceased: Close family members often send casket sprays or large standing sprays. Friends and extended family might opt for smaller arrangements or plants.

• Religious and Cultural Considerations: Some religions have specific customs or preferences around funeral flowers. It’s important to respect these traditions.

• Color Choice: Traditionally, white flowers are commonly used for their association with peace and purity. However, incorporating the deceased’s favorite colors can add a personal touch.

• Message and Cards: A brief, heartfelt message on the accompanying card can convey your sympathy and support.

Etiquette

• Timing: Ensure timely delivery of the flowers to reach the funeral service or memorial in advance.
• Simplicity: Sometimes, simplicity is more profound. A simple, elegant arrangement can be just as meaningful as a more elaborate display.
• Personal Touches: Including a ribbon with a short dedication or favorite flower of the deceased adds personal significance.

Alternatives to Traditional Flowers

• Donation in Lieu of Flowers: Some families prefer donations to a charity the deceased supported.
• Memory Gardens: Contributing plants or flowers that can be planted in a memorial garden.

Remember, the main purpose of sending funeral flowers is to offer comfort and express your sympathy and respect, so choose with the heart.